College is a major time for students to develop into adults. The events and experience that students have in college can transform the students into good students or cause them to become troubled and create problems. What are some of these problems that cause students to become problem students?
According to an article, "Stress and College Students, Top 10 Reasons Sudent are Stressed", stress is cause by the following 10 reasons which can lead to problems in the everyday college students life:
1. Homework
Of course, this will cause anyone to stress, not just new students. However, college homework tends to be more tedious than high school homework. It is no wonder why so many new students are stressed out in the beginning of the year.
2. Away from home
Moving away from home is a large change for many new college students. In fact, psychology experts suggest that separation anxiety from home is a major contributor to a college students stress levels.
New students can combat this stress factor by bringing things that remind them of their home. Additionally, they should frequently talk with their family.
3. New lifestyle
Living in college is much different from living at home. Therefore, new students need to learn a new way to live their life, at least while attending college. They must cooperate with new people very quickly, forcing them to set aside a time to understand the new people they meet. As a result, their new fast-paced lifestyle can cause great stress.
4. Trouble adjusting
Not every college student adjusts to their new life. In fact, many studies show that a third of new college students don’t find their place in college fast enough to avoid more stress. Of course, these statistics vary among individual students.
Nevertheless, college students who have trouble adjusting will find their new life very frustrating, thus causing stress.
College students can help themselves adjust by finding two or three friends who are upperclassmen who can show the new student how to manage their new life.
5. Financial problems
After leaving the comforts of home, many college students are left to their own vices. However, it is also during these times that college students learn how to live independently from their parents, forcing them to learn how to manage their own budget. It is not uncommon for college students to run into a major financial crisis, especially if they have to pay for most of their college bill.
Students can quickly learn how to solve their financial problems by sticking to a strict budget until they get a feel for their monthly expenses.
6. Relationships
New college students usually go through a breakup with their high school sweetheart, which is one stress factor. However, the new living environment promotes other attraction difficulties. Students feel a rush of emotions from the new lifestyle, which heavily increases any feelings they have towards new partners. As a result, both people in a new relationship can subconsciously place themselves under heavy stress from the relationship.
Students should always try to keep a level head. Yes, they are in a new environment, which promotes independence and spontaneity, but keeping a clear mind will help students to manage their emotions.
7. New way of learning
College professors teach differently than high school teachers. The level of learning is more sophisticated, making the teaching more sophisticated.
Students can keep up with the new way of learning by talking with their professors to understand how they think, which can give them an insight to how they teach.
8. Bullies
Bullies don’t just exist in high school. They, too, graduate and move on to college. Moreover, bullied students feel more vulnerable due to the new environment and living style. However, students can still combat bullies by not allowing themselves to be pushed around.
9. Too many activities
Between homework, new friends, work and sports, students can feel overloaded by activities. Students should learn how to balance their activities, and even eliminate unnecessary activities.
10. Roommates
Living with new people is very stressful, especially if they do not know each other. Students who have roommates need to not only learn how to live with strangers, but also how to create their own space in a small dorm room or apartment.
By understanding stress and college students, family and friends can help their loved ones transition into this new phase of their life.
When these areas of stress become to great for a person to handle, many times students resort to violence or vicious acts to keep their mind of of the stress of life or take actions that are considered inappropriate forms of resolving issues, typically cause problems for other people within the surrounding community. This pins the student with a tag of being a problem child. The best thing for student personnel staff to do is to try to take measure to prevent the stresses from become to great for students and prepare students with stress relief methods.
There are other reasons for the actions of problem students other than just stress. There are some students who grow up in different lifestyles and in the attempt trying to attract attention, students may behave in manner that are inappropriate or unconventional. The best thing to do in these circumstances is to correct the behaviors before the student become comfortable with disruptive behaviors that can harm the student or the surrounding community. If the actions are not condoned the student may never think twice about their behavior and may see it as being acceptable.